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Tony May, restaurateur and ambassador of Italian fine-dining, dies at 84

The owner of Palio and San Domenico NY mentored many of the country’s great chefs

Bret Thorn, Senior Food Editor

April 5, 2022

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Tony May, the restaurant impresario who educated New Yorkers about Italian fine dining, died on Sunday according to his daughter Marisa May. He was 84.

The operator of Palio, which opened in 1986, and San Domenico NY, which opened in 1988, May offered customers who were accustomed to red sauce-based Italian-American cuisine the alta cucina of the Italian aristocracy, which at that point was unknown in the United States.

May also was a mentor to many chefs of Italian food, including Paul Bartolotta, Andrew Carmellini, Scot Conant and Marc Vetri.

May was born Antonio Magliulo on Dec. 6, 1937, in the town of Torre del Greco, a few miles south of Naples Italy, the eldest of eight children and the son of a sea captain. To help the family make ends meet he started working as a commis on a cruise ship at age 17.

The next year he went to London to study English and then returned to the cruise ship where he started, becoming its maître d’ by age 20.

Five years later, in 1963, he moved to New York City and got  job as a waiter at The Colony restaurant, followed by a methodical study of the American style of service, food and operations, which he did by working six-week stints at a number of restaurants in the city.

By February of 1964 he landed a job as a waiter at The Rainbow Room, the iconic rooftop destination. By 1965 he was maître d’ and by 1968 he was general manager and adopted what he called his “stage name” of Tony May.

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He was appalled at what passed for Italian food in New York at the time.

“The food was generally heavy and very sweet compared to the lightness of the food I was accustomed to,” he told NRN in an interview in 2005.

So in 1971 he held his first “Italian Fortnight,” for which he flew chefs in from Italy to cook their cuisine. It was a hit, and he continued to invite visiting Italian chefs to cook at his restaurants as long as they remained opened.

Palio closed in 2002, and in 2009 San Domenico NY moved from its Columbus Circle location farther downtown to 26th St., where it was rechristened as SD26 and was eventually sold in 2015.

In 1979 May founded the Grupo di Ristoraturi Italiani with the mission of improving the image of Italian cuisine through education and sent American students, restaurateurs and members of the media to a different region of Italy each year to sample products and see how Italy’s own cuisine is evolving.

In 1991, May founded The Italian Culinary Institute, or ICIF, in Italy with professionals in the Piemonte region and was also involved with a variety of American culinary educational institutions including Johnson & Wales and The Culinary Institute of America. He helped finance and name the latter’s Italian restaurant on its Hyde Park, N.Y., campus, Ristorante Caterina de Medici.

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His book, Italian Cuisine, published in 1990, has sold more than 60,000 copies.

 

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About the Author

Bret Thorn

Senior Food Editor, Nation's Restaurant News

Senior Food & Beverage Editor

Bret Thorn is senior food & beverage editor for Nation’s Restaurant News and Restaurant Hospitality for Informa’s Restaurants and Food Group, with responsibility for spotting and reporting on food and beverage trends across the country for both publications as well as guiding overall F&B coverage. 

He is the host of a podcast, In the Kitchen with Bret Thorn, which features interviews with chefs, food & beverage authorities and other experts in foodservice operations.

From 2005 to 2008 he also wrote the Kitchen Dish column for The New York Sun, covering restaurant openings and chefs’ career moves in New York City.

He joined Nation’s Restaurant News in 1999 after spending about five years in Thailand, where he wrote articles about business, banking and finance as well as restaurant reviews and food columns for Manager magazine and Asia Times newspaper. He joined Restaurant Hospitality’s staff in 2016 while retaining his position at NRN. 

A magna cum laude graduate of Tufts University in Medford, Mass., with a bachelor’s degree in history, and a member of Phi Beta Kappa, Thorn also studied traditional French cooking at Le Cordon Bleu Ecole de Cuisine in Paris. He spent his junior year of college in China, studying Chinese language, history and culture for a semester each at Nanjing University and Beijing University. While in Beijing, he also worked for ABC News during the protests and ultimate crackdown in and around Tiananmen Square in 1989.

Thorn’s monthly column in Nation’s Restaurant News won the 2006 Jesse H. Neal National Business Journalism Award for best staff-written editorial or opinion column.

He served as president of the International Foodservice Editorial Council, or IFEC, in 2005.

Thorn wrote the entry on comfort food in the Oxford Encyclopedia of Food and Drink in America, 2nd edition, published in 2012. He also wrote a history of plated desserts for the Oxford Companion to Sugar and Sweets, published in 2015.

He was inducted into the Disciples d’Escoffier in 2014.

A Colorado native originally from Denver, Thorn lives in Brooklyn, N.Y.

Bret Thorn’s areas of expertise include food and beverage trends in restaurants, French cuisine, the cuisines of Asia in general and Thailand in particular, restaurant operations and service trends. 

Bret Thorn’s Experience: 

Nation’s Restaurant News, food & beverage editor, 1999-Present
New York Sun, columnist, 2005-2008 
Asia Times, sub editor, 1995-1997
Manager magazine, senior editor and restaurant critic, 1992-1997
ABC News, runner, May-July, 1989

Education:
Tufts University, BA in history, 1990
Peking University, studied Chinese language, spring, 1989
Nanjing University, studied Chinese language and culture, fall, 1988 
Le Cordon Bleu Ecole de Cuisine, Cértificat Elémentaire, 1986

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